I think the most important decision is To decide to live in a beautiful state No matter what is happening Because that's more rare than a Billionaire it is the single most Powerful decision that I know a human Being can make if they want an Extraordinary life that doesn't mean you Never get angry you don't get sad it Just means if you start to get angry or Sad you remember your state is the Greatest gift you give yourself and the People you love you're saying Tony You're saying like literally draw a line In the sand and go this is how I'm going To be yes that does not mean you won't Feel these feelings it just means when You feel them you snap out of it right Away You change your state and you put Yourself back in a beautiful state and If you do that more and more Becomes a way of being achieving Everything doesn't mean a beautiful State doesn't mean fulfillment so it Really is that decision