This is the one area of life where the Most pain and the most pleasure shows up [Music] Quality of life is Not about your partner whether you're Single whether you're married or whether You're discovering what you want It's really you Know what happens is our partners just Become a mirror of some aspect of Ourselves that we don't usually see and This really not so much about the love That you want to get it's really about Us becoming and embodying fully the love That we are it isn't an outside in game It's an inside out game But this requires courage and the gift Of my life for this woman beside me is I Don't know a person who's had more Courage more love more determination More faith and that's what it takes let The wild ride has been worth it at every Possible level and every challenge we Face because you're all having Challenges if you're in a relationship But somehow we seem to think that we Shouldn't have problems I think the only Problem we have is you think you're not Supposed to have any My invitation to you if you're willing To do the one thing that's required to Have a relationship really be lasting And loving and passionate and that is You have to decide to make your partner
The most important thing If there's one gift you want to give in Any relationship stop questioning the Intent Divorce the story of they're a bad Person and marry the truth and usually They will wake up out of the Nightmare And love you more because you brought What was true We're just all freaking humans doing the Best we can if somebody's done something You think is unforgivable rather than Controlling that or pulling back love Try just bringing more love to the Circumstance love melts Here's the solution be a generous lover And it all gets solved someone who wants To give more love when they're trying to Get back someone who doesn't measure It's not a transaction somebody doesn't Just get pissed because their needs are Met where we think there isn't love There is always love it's always present Because it's our nature we think we're Not lovable it's not we just have to Clap the mask and uproot what we're not So we can allow our nature just to be And express itself and it's like we have An opportunity to be what I really Believe we were all born to be which is To love And it's more beautiful than I can even Convey [Music]
