I look at love as like four dimensions I Look at as the First Dimension is like Baby love and when I say that I don't Mean the love that you have for your Baby I mean a person whose standards are The baby because the babies if I said Are babies loving we all go yes and Especially with our daughter we feel That completely no question about it You're right over there peering through The glass right now I'm being so good But it's the truth is the only loving And happy when they're getting what they Want Right that's because that's the stage of Development it's about me me me as it Should be at that stage of development But some people are 50 and they're still Doing baby love they're angry if they Don't get if you don't give me Everything I want those relationships if They last they don't last very long and They might last in years but they don't Last them love because nobody wants to Be in a place where you're always trying To get something from me as I said Earlier you want a place to give